Get up close and personal with underwater species at the Manila Ocean Park.
These days, it’s becoming more difficult to claw children away from the computers. The days when we as children went skinny-dipping in the river, rode a bike to the abandoned lot down the dirt road, or climbed the mango tree seem so far away. This generation’s idea of “going out” is driving to the mall.
Like all parents, I’m becoming more concerned with my son Jacob’s addiction to online games and computers, so this summer, he and I have come up with a list of ten pre-digital-age things we can do outdoors.
1. Go on a picnic. Bring a blanket and a basket of food, be open to the idea of having fun, analog style.
2. Go birdwatching. If you’re a first-timer, it’s best to go with a club, such as the Wild Bird Club of the Philippines, which has guided trips open to the public. You can also sign up with sports and outdoor shop Recreational Outdoor Exchange (ROX) at Bonifacio High Street, Taguig, for their weekend birdwatching trips at P700 per person.
3. Get up close and personal with underwater creatures. If you’re willing to brave the long lines, check out the newly opened Manila Ocean Park, which features 300 marine species indigenous to the Philippines and Southeast Asia. Entrance fee is P400 for adults and P350 for children. The park opens at 10 a.m. on weekdays and 9 a.m. on weekends and closes at 9 p.m.
4. Teach your child to fish. We’ve heard that one can go fishing at the La Mesa Ecopark, so we’re looking forward to trying it out this summer. According to the Website, you pay P20 for the use of the fishing rod and P80 for every kilo of fish you catch. (Special rates apply to Quezon City residents.)
5. Go biking. You can also do this with your kids at the La Mesa Ecopark. If you live in a subdivision that offers a lot of space for biking, block off the end of the day for biking hour and watch the sunset with your child. It’s also good exercise for you.
6. Visit a museum. My son and I visited the Museo Pambata last year, and he enjoyed the wall-climbing facility as well as the mini marketplace. Go early so you can catch the 10 a.m. storytelling hour with the Alitaptap group of storytellers.
7. Go swimming. Did you notice how the mall seems to be taken over by inflatables? If you can’t drive to the nearest beach or pool, who says you can’t bring the pool to your backyard? Make some ice candy or fruit shake and enjoy it while soaking with your kids in an inflatable pool. Don’t forget the sunscreen!
8. Go kite flying. There’s nothing more exciting than building your own kite from scratch. If you’re in the dark on where to start, get some tips here. Go kite flying in an open field, and stay away from electric posts. The Cebu City government prohibits kite flying for children younger than 12 years old without adult supervision, and in open spaces smaller than 3,000 square meters, unless there are no electric or telephone poles in the vicinity. Inquire with your locality on kite-flying dos and don’ts. (We miss the pre-Serendra Fort, which was a good place to fly kites.)
9. Play outdoors. While I’ all out for a ballgame at the nearby Sunken Garden in UP Diliman, my son wants to learn how to play tumbang preso, and the mother is certainly very elated that he’s excited to learn something so analog and old-fashioned.
10. Visit the zoo. If the Avilon Zoo in Montalban seems too far off, there’s a nearby branch right in the city: Ark Avilon Zoo. (Read Annalyn Jusay’s and Anton Diaz’s posts about the place.)
Photo credit: Leon B. Dista
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I am happy to share to you guys that my nephews Wesley and Carlo (the kids in the above photo) so far have done 1, 3, 6, 7, 8, 9. :-)
Thanks to Pinoycentric for featuring my work.
Happy summer to all!
Wow, that’s great! We’re trying to compress all 10 this summer, so we’re hoping we have enough time to do all.
Happy summer too, and thanks for allowing us to use your photo.
All these activities are great, but they would be entirely counterproductive if they weren’t done on a regular basis or as part of a habit and if kids were forcefully made to engage in them. Nothing alienates a child more than taking him or her out of a comfort zone and the use of parental coercion. If kids feel that they were being forced into these activities, in the long run, they’ll feel less personally motivated to engage in these activities and will further retreat into the sedentary life in front of a screen.
The objective is not to force them to do the things that are best for them while you can still control them. The objective should be to cultivate the desire and willpower to live a healthy, fulfilling life. Often, these two objectives conflict, and many parents don’t even realize it.
nice one Chris…
nice article too…
how i wish…
my photos too…
Hi, Nico: thanks for the input. Thankfully, I need not coerce my son to do these activities because he was actually the one who thought up eight of the ten activities on the list. Kids, I believe, just need a little reminding every now and then that there’s a world out there ready to be explored. I love the convenience of technology–don’t get me wrong–but I also appreciate the quiet moments away from this fast-paced life.
Thanks for dropping by, y’all! :)
I send my son (once or twice a year) for a few weeks in the province. The great outdoors… no computers, no malls, no computer games, no TV, no hot water. You have the luck (?) in the Philippines that you don’t have to go very far away to be back to basics. Teenagers like him need that kind of reality check once in a while. They need to experience that the majority of the people don’t live in the same luxury. It also allows him to re-connect with nature and with people of other backgrounds.
That’s wonderful, Sidney. I know someone very wealthy who sends her daughter to the province each summer sans the bodyguard, the car, and all the other trappings of wealth the child is used to because she wants her daughter to appreciate what she has and understand how fortunate she is. It’s also a way for her to realize that one can live without all these luxuries and still be as happy.